Are you so afraid of the thought of being at a dentist for any procedure?

Well, you are not alone, many people are in fact suffering bad tooth and gum problems as a result of this fear alone more than any other thing!

Many people have anxiety about seeing their dentist – even if they’ve only ever had good experiences.

That’s because anxiety is usually a fear of a future event. You’re worried about something that might happen.


Common dental fears and anxieties:

  • Needles – some people may not like needles in general. Others don’t like the thought of injections into their gums
  • The drill – a fear of drilling may be caused by a dislike of the sound and vibration as well as fears about pain
  • Pain
  • Embarrassment about bad teeth – this can be connected to guilt about poor dental hygiene or bad breath fears
  • Sedation fears


Choosing A Dentist

If you have dental anxiety, it’s vital to choose a dentist who will listen and acknowledge your fears. If they can’t be empathetic when you’re talking to them, it’s likely they won’t be during treatment either.

Seek recommendations from family and friends. You could also do some research online. You may want to choose a dentist who practices natural dentistry. Natural dentistry combines modern dental techniques with the use of natural materials. It can also involve traditional therapies. Some of these therapies may be less invasive. They may help you relax and become less sensitive to discomfort.

If your children are anxious about dental visits, a pediatric dentist might be best. Alternatively, choose one who specializes in dentistry for children. Don’t fool yourself that because your children are young, they don’t need to see the dentist for a while. They do. Regular check-ups are important to prevent them from getting tooth decay. Even ‘baby teeth’ can become decayed.

The worst thing you can do is to pick a random dentist and hope for the best. Once you have a potential dentist in mind, try to speak to them yourself. If you feel comfortable chatting to them, book an initial consultation, just for a check-up.

Ensure you feel comfortable with this dentist before booking any treatments. If you’re not happy, try someone else.


Dental Fear #1 – Fear of Needles

A fear of needles isn’t just restricted to dental patients. Nearly 1 in 5 people have needle fear of some sort when seeing a medical practitioner.

Make sure that you acknowledge your fears by talking to your dentist before the appointment. They are familiar with these anxieties and may have ways to help.

It may be reassuring to know that dentists use very effective numbing gels prior to giving you any injections. This should mean you won’t feel a thing.

These numbing gels have helped many people overcome their fear of dental injections. Ask if your dentist can give painless injections or use numbing gel before giving an injection.


Dental Fear #2 – The Drill

Some people may fear pain from a drill. This fear can be triggered by the sound of the drill.

However, patients are numbed before using the drill. When sufficiently numbed, you won’t feel any pain at all. You’ll just be aware of light pressure and vibration.

If the sound troubles you, pop in earphones and listen to some music. This can help to calm and/or distract you. It can be a calming classic or a pumping dance track – whichever you prefer!


Dental Fear #3 – Pain

If you’ve had a bad experience with dental pain before, you may be afraid of a repeat experience. However, many factors come into play with dental pain.

Anaesthetics and numbing gels are now available for most treatments. This means it’s not likely to be the painful experience you’ve had in the past.

Also, when you’re more fearful, you tend to tense up. This may make you more sensitive to pain.


Changing your pain perception can be helped by:

  1.     Learning ways to relax
  2.     Deep breathing techniques
  3.     A great dentist you’re comfortable with
  4.     Numbing gels


Dental Fear #4 – Embarrassment About Bad Teeth

Your dentist deals with damaged teeth and gums every day. There’s a good chance they’ve seen many people with worse dental problems than yours. So, relax. It’s their job to help people prevent dental problems. But it’s also part of their job to deal with damaged teeth and help you get them as healthy as they can be.

You may like to call your dentist and let them know you’re embarrassed about the state of your teeth – but would like their help to fix them. This can help to break the ice. It also lets them know you have anxieties about it. You may find that knowing your dentist is already aware may help you feel more relaxed during your visit.



Dental Fear #5 – Sedation Fears

Fears about being sedated fall into two categories.

Some people fear they will be too awake and aware of the pain. They worry their teeth and gums won’t be numb enough and they’ll be in pain.

Others fear to be numb as they feel they will be out of control. This can lead to fears that they will suffocate, choke or be unable to swallow.

It’s important to realize that for top teeth, only an individual tooth will be numbed. For bottom teeth, sometimes your tongue or cheek may feel swollen when numbed, but they won’t be. You lose sensation in these areas but not function.


So, be reassured – you will not choke or be unable to swallow.


Overcoming Dental Fears and Anxieties

Here are some tips to help overcome your dental fears and anxieties:


  1. Identify your fear. Once you know exactly what you’re fearful about, you can start working towards a solution.
  2. Choose a great dentist who listens and cares. Your fears will only increase if you’ve chosen a dentist who isn’t right for you. Consider a pediatric dentist for your children.
  3. Take someone with you. Some patients find it comforting to take a friend along.
  4. Ask for the perception of pain. You may find emotional relief from knowing what to expect with treatment. Ask your dentist to pre-warn you about the sensations you might experience. For instance, will it be a tingle or feel like a mosquito bite?
  5. Don’t be afraid to ask for sedation if you think it may help.
  6. Learn about mindfulness, meditation and breathing techniques. They are great ways to reduce your anxiety.
  7. Seek professional help. The best course of action is to deal with the root cause of your fear. Unless you do this, you will always fear trips to the dentist. Do you really want to continue having to psych yourself up for every visit?


These fears and anxieties may affect your quality of life if they’re left untreated. They may prevent you from having important treatment or visiting the dentist at all.


If your dental fears are affecting your quality of life, it’s time to get some help. NLP is an especially great therapy for fears and phobias. It’s effective in removing unconscious blocks and unhelpful thinking patterns. It can re-train your ‘monkey mind’! Alternately, seek out a therapist who is experienced in treating fears and phobias.


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